“Stomach is not the only path to reach the heart of a husband; it is never futile to obey what he says. Managing involvement in entertainment and activities is a great quality of innovation. If a good wife deals her husband with a bad attitude, then things would worsen rather than improving.”
Love is life and without this characteristic, life is death. Feeling the changes is love and when this feeling is not there then a person becomes empty. What to talk about humans, even trees lose their attractiveness.
The mystery of love is deeply rooted inside the heart. Nature has not only bonded humans but also animals, birds, insects and plants with this harmonious and broad relation. If you think that you can live happily without love in your life, you are mistaken. You can never make such a deal of obvious loss. Just understand the value of self respect along with the sanctity of affection. Keep intact the deep affection with your wife or husband and learn the art of winning a heart with respect. This develops simplicity and piety in your personality.
Some friendly and full of love practices are explained below without which there is no warmth left in life. Just like it becomes necessary to see a mirror at times, when you start scattering in solitude, you must have a friend, in the form of a caring life partner who will save you from scattering. In these unforgettable moments, love is that fire fly which guides us to the destination.
By changing minor habits and traits, a marriage can remain novel forever. There’s no harm in trying. Time is such a teacher which gives lessons and vacation as well!
What’s the harm if both of you try to sleep at the same time: Actually this behavior should be curbed where one goes to sleep alone. But when your working hours and daily routines vary a lot, then if any of the partners goes to sleep early, it should be tolerated. At times wives are habitual to get up early in the morning and the husbands continue to stay in bed for long. In our Eastern culture, such way of life is adored where both the husband and wife wake up early morning and offer their prayers on time. Then husband gets some rest and the wife helps the children to get ready for school and wakes up the husband after preparing the breakfast. If marriage counselors advise couples to go to bed together, it is also meant to provide them opportunity to discuss affairs requiring privacy and which can only be discussed in the peace of the night. Furthermore, certain things are to be kept unknown from children. Thus for the betterment of the entire family, future planning and for discussion about different options, this is an appropriate time.
Adopting similar interests is necessary: Stomach is not the only path to reach the heart of a husband. It is never futile to obey what he says. Managing involvement in entertainment and activities is a great quality of innovation. If a good wife deals her husband with a bad attitude, then things would worsen rather than improving. Can a harmonious and friendly husband tolerate such an evident hostile attitude, especially when he is aware of all the colours of your moods? Not at all. Then stop; and control your mood. Warmth in the life cannot continue for long just by pretending so. Beauty of your personality can be displayed by flexibility in your attitude. It is like an investment on yourself. Ups and downs do occur in life. Sacrifice will always add to your respect and you will never feel embarrassed in your own eyes.
Happy couples are always seen together: Why not? When they are happy with their married life, they should indeed be together. If only one of them attends a function alone, it does not mean that the other has deliberately been left. It should not be ruled out that one of them may be ill or some inevitable commitment could have occurred. Anyways, when most occasions and family gatherings are attended together, it shows the closeness between the two. However, some occasions may be exempted where both husband and wife cannot attend together. Nevertheless, all such decisions of life, whether small or big, important or unimportant, should be taken after mutual consensus.
Expression of body language: Shaking hands, kissing the forehead, shaking of shoulders and patting the head with affection, all of these are various ways to express love. Sparkling eyes, smiling lips, and an affectionate accent i.e. some sweet saying, all are feelings that transfer from one body to another. Psychological importance of all of these expressions and their reactions cannot be denied. All these supports of love carry the power to subside the worries of the entire day.
Expression of well wishes, again and again??: Saying that ‘I love you’ is necessary for many people. For example, sensitive and emotional people may have different way of thinking. And what harm will it have to express your feelings by using a beautiful support of words? It will be known once expressed. So say it today while keeping aside your ego.
Importance of saying good night: It has been a pleasant practice of the past that to teach etiquettes to children, where they are taught to recite various verses and Kalmaat prior going to bed, they are also instructed to offer Salam as well. Our children still say good night before sleeping. Some would say Allah Hafiz while others might use the word good night. It may be any language, expressing affection, love and gratitude is never unsocial, rather it is a feeling of being civilized.
Calling the spouse on phone from office: Although office is a place where it appears very difficult to get time for yourself and your family, but it is not like that. It is necessary that you should not refrain from calling your life partner on phone. The conversation may be short. But discussing weather, work or asking for any requirement for home, all such things should not be kept pending for the afternoon.
Do not remain distant: If the husband takes you out for shopping or dinner, or in a business gathering or to meet someone, remaining distant from each other would only mean that you are being forced and are unwillingly acting so. Maintain a light mood and feel the beauty of being in company. The happiness on your faces, good mood, cheerfulness and remaining well dressed gives confidence to your personality. Similarly, a marriage never gets old. You must have understood the depth of this thing now.
